How do you have sex when using a chastity device? Easy Step 1: restrain him Step 2: let him know or not he needs be able to last Step 3: let him know or don’t he’s going to orgasm Step 4 optional post orgasm torture Step 5 repeat steps 3 and 4 two more times Step 6 : invite a friend over and see how he well he can last Step 7: if step 6 shows he couldn’t last long enough cycle through steps 3 and 5 more as needed Short version - restrain and force orgasms, have him aroused before removing the restraints (or not).